Supporting Toilet Training

As you think about training your child to use the toilet, put yourself in your child’s place for a moment and think about everything that is involved.

Every child is different and learns at different times and in different ways. Most children are ready for toilet training between 18 months and 3 years old, when they can understand what is expected of them. By the time your child is school-aged, they should be able to take themselves to the toilet.

Think about needing the toilet, your child is recognising this feeling and responding accordingly. Be aware of the time needed to get to the potty or toilet, and the ability to removing clothing. Many children and particularly those with additional needs, will never give any signs that they are ready to potty or toilet train.

Toilet learning means helping your child use a potty or toilet as part of their overall learning. By starting the process early and gently, when the time comes to stop wearing nappies, your child will already have some skills to make this transition.

Extra parent tips for supporting toilet training:

Institute of Health Visiting leaflet

Child with additional needs

Attend a Ready Steady School Workshop to further prepare your child

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