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You may be familiar with the ICON message from your midwife and your health visiting team.
If your baby cries frequently, this may be caused by indigestion and wind, or it might be your baby just needs a cuddle, skin to skin contact or some peace and quiet.
Some babies cry more frequently for hours at a time, and can’t be soothed no matter what you do. This crying is often referred to as colic, and can begin from when your baby is just a few weeks old, tends to peak around two months and can last until they are five months old. This can seem like an eternity when it’s your baby crying, so during these periods it is important to plan how you will manage.
Read more about colic and frequent crying on the NHS website here.
Babies often cry more in the late afternoon or evening, and may raise their knees to their tummy, arch their back or clench their fists. Colic is common, and just as likely to affect breastfed babies as formula fed babies.
Excessive infant crying could increase parental stress and impact on your emotional health and wellbeing.
If the crying is getting too much for you, it’s fine to put your baby in their cot for a few minutes while you take a break, as long as they are safe; once you feel ready, return to them.
The important thing to remember is that your baby crying excessively isn’t down to anything you’ve done or not done – it’s not your fault! Stay calm and remind yourself that it is normal, you can cope and they will grow out of it.
Talk to your health visiting team or GP if you feel that nothing is working and you’re finding it hard to cope. There is support available for parents going through this.
Never shake or hurt a baby. It can cause lasting injury, brain damage or death. Babies cry, you can cope; put your baby in a safe place and walk away until calmer.
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For more information visit iconcope.org
Useful links
- ICON Advice for coping with a crying baby
- Health for Under 5s- Six top tips for combating colic
- NHS – coping with colic
- Cry-Sis– an organisation that offers support for families with excessively crying, sleepless and demanding babies. Their helpline is 08451 228 669, and is open 7 days a week from 9am – 10pm
- National Childbirth Trust (NCT)– advice on coping with a crying baby
- Mush – app to connect with other parents close by
- Lullaby Trust – safe sleep guidance
